Bill died on November 15th of pancreatic cancer. A Celebration of Life will be held for him on Saturday, January 17th 2026 at 11AM. It will take place at St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral, 2728 Sixth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92101. There will be a reception to follow in the Great Hall.
Sexual Sobriety
Various definitions
Many people who come to this website are struggling with some aspect of sexual behavior that could be called addictive, compulsive, obsessive, dependent, or otherwise out-of-control (all various ways of saying basically the same thing, which is that a person is powerless over some aspect of his or her sexual behavior and that his or her life has become unmanageable).
Sexual Sobriety Definitions Vary
The definition of what constitutes sexual “sobriety” is not the same among the five different fellowships. Knowing these differences can be helpful in deciding which fellowship best suits the individual needs of each person seeking sexual recovery. There are at least five different 12-Step fellowships that address a person’s sexual behavior. They are all based on the original 12-step fellowship, Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). From the time of its founding in the 1930’s. A.A. has been so successful in helping people recover from alcohol dependence that its format has been adapted to many other behaviors. Several different fellowships for achieving sexual sobriety originated in different parts of the country within a few years of each other.
SCA states that: “Members are encouraged to develop their own sexual recovery plan, and to define sexual sobriety for themselves. We are not here to repress our God-given sexuality, but to learn how to express it in ways that will not make unreasonable demands on our time and energy, place us in legal jeopardy — or endanger our mental, physical or spiritual health.”
Although the SCA fellowship originally sought to address issues of sexual compulsion among gay and bisexual men, it has always been open to all sexual genders and orientations, and there is an increasing number of women and heterosexual men participating.
(posted from the SCA Atlanta’s website: https://atlantasexaddicts.com/gasca)
Thanksgiving Gratitude Meeting
Please join us via zoom for 2025 SCA Los Angeles’ traditional Thanksgiving Gratitude Meeting.
Thursday November 27, 2025
10:00 AM – 11:00 AM Pacific Time
Zoom Meeting ID: 621 513 577
Password: 1234
Click here for meeting

Court Signatures will not be provided for this meeting.
Sex, Love & Affection in Sobriety
Time Change
Please note there is a time change and Daylight Saving Time ends in most of Europe and certain other areas this Sunday, October 26, 2025. Clocks in the affected areas go back one hour. The telephone meetings will still be at 4:00 p.m. and 2:00 p.m. New York Time as usual, but the time in other places may be different than usual. The meetings will be one hour earlier in much of Europe that week for instance, depending on your location:
https://www.timeanddate.com/news/time/europe-dst-end-2025.html
Daylight Saving Time ends and the clocks go back one hour in most of North America the following weekend, and the meetings will be back in the usual alignment with most other time zones on Sunday, November 2, 2025:
https://www.timeanddate.com/news/time/usa-end-dst-2025.html
https://www.timeanddate.com/news/time/canada-end-dst-2025.html
SCA Toronto Celebrates 25 Years
October 1, 2025 marked the twenty-fifth anniversary of SCA meetings in Toronto.
The Toronto group has decided to celebrate this occasion by going out for dinner and having a cake for dessert after their regular 6:30 p.m. meeting on Friday, November 7, 2025.
Anyone who has attended an SCA meeting in Toronto in the past is welcome to join this celebration. Please RSVP by October 31st at scatoronto@hotmail.com if you plan to attend. We hope to see as many members as possible there!
To mark this occasion, the group will also be publishing an updated summary history of SCA’s presence in Toronto, expanding on the original version that was submitted to ISO and published on the SCAnner in October, 2015.
Happy Anniversary Toronto!
International Meeting (in English)
All “S” Retreat
Recovery Retreats
SCA Audio book
SCA: A Program of Recovery, 3rd edition (2021) is now available in audio book format (AI voices) @ $9.99 through Amazon alongside the e-book and paperback versions. In creating this audio version, we included a variety of voices, especially for the sub-chapters containing individual recovery stories.




