It’s Time for the L.A. Convention

Carry the Message…Experience, Strength & Hope.

Convention weekend is fast approaching.

February 15 – 17 2013
Plummer Park – West Hollywood, California
 INFO: http://scalosangeles.org/content/convention

Congratulations to the cast of the Convention show!
“Recovery in the Key of Life”: Dan W. Dean K. John S. Michael R. Steven B.

Registration $50 — Includes opening ceremonies, meetings, all workshops, breakfast, lunch, Saturday night banquet and Sunday brunch.

Online registration http://scaconvention.eventbrite.com

Registration by mail:
Checks payable to SCA Convention
7985 Santa Monica Blvd
Suite 109-96
West Hollywood, CA 90046

Workshop in L.A. on Socializing

The workshop on Socializing in Recovery will take place Saturday, March 9, 2013, from 1:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m., in Plummer Park’s Art Room #1, 7377 Santa Monica Blvd., West Hollywood, CA 90046. Please note that this is afternoon. We will again be multi-tasking, by discussing what socializing in recovery is all about, and how to socialize as one of the Tools To Help Us Get Better. Attendees are encouraged to bring and share their ideas for using the Tool of Socializing. We will have a draft piece of literature on Socializing for the workshop to revise as we see fit. If all goes well, we may submit it to the Los Angeles Intergroup for use as literature on its meeting tables.

Our Tools That Help Us Get Better reads in part: “Socializing is a way of breaking down our isolation and getting to know other people in a non-sexual context; at fellowship after meetings; in supportive organizations and groups; and in the community at large.”

This continuing series of workshops is to help retain those new to the Fellowship of SCA, for those seeking a breakthrough in their recovery from compulsive sexual behavior and to help other members move forward in staying sexually sober, through working the Twelve Steps of SCA and using the other Tools of the Program. Please bring your SCA Little Blue Book, a large Spiral bound notebook and pen or pencil, and especially bring any ideas you have for socializing in recovery. We ask a $5.00 donation, to help cover our costs. Net proceeds go to the SCA Los Angeles Intergroup. No one is turned away for lack of funds. The workshop will be conducted in English. We hope to see you there.

We have done workshops on each of the “Twelve Steps of SCA,” and the “Tools That Help Us Get Better.” We are always interested in finding new facilitators to lead workshops, especially workshops we have not done before. Please give us feedback, as to the next workshop you would like to see, or persons in the Southern California region whom you would like to nominate to host a workshop. February brings the SCA Convention, which will take place on President’s Day Weekend. The SCA Convention will have many workshops, to help in your recovery. For more information, go to www.scalosangeles.org, and click on “Convention” or “Workshops”. After the SCA Convention, the next workshop will be March 9th. Our deadline to volunteer for a workshop in April is Wednesday, March 13th, because of the lead time necessary for preparation of workshops.

You may email any comments, suggestions or questions to us at: workshops@scalosangeles.org.

Sponsorship Workshop in L.A.

  • What Is Sponsorship About?
  • How Do I Get A Sponsor? 
  • Am I Ready To Be A Sponsor?

“Sponsorship is two people with the same problem helping each other to work the Program.” (Tools That Help Us Get Better)

SATURDAY, January 12, 2013
1:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.
PLUMMER PARK
7377 Santa Monica Blvd.
Art Room 1
West Hollywood, CA 90046
(Park in North lot, workshop is at South end of park)

Please Bring:

  • Large Spiral ring notebook
  • Pen / pencil

Donation: $5.00
Suggested donation to pay for materials. None turned away for lack of funds. Net proceeds go to SCA / LA Intergroup.

Contact: workshops@scalosangeles.org

More Info: www.scalosangeles.org

This workshop is for the Newcomer, Returning Member or any Member who is interested in finding a sponsor, or exploring the possibility of sponsoring other recovering Sexual Compulsives, Sex Addicts or Love Addicts.

Seventh Tradition Matters

The following is a contribution to the SCAnner, which encourages any member to do the same. Use the “About Us” link for more information.

From an Enthusiastic Member of the Fellowship

SCA’s 7th Tradition states: Every SCA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.”

At the last two SCA International Service Organization Annual Conferences, in March, 2011 and April, 2012, ISO passed motions regarding several 7th Tradition matters.

In 2011, ISO adopted a suggested worldwide contribution formula for groups and intergroups in an effort to help ensure consistency in the funding by groups of their regional intergroups, and upwards to ISO itself. This is as follows:
“It is suggested that, after paying their rent and other expenses and accumulating a prudent reserve, SCA meetings donate their surplus funds to their respective SCA Intergroup, and that SCA Intergroups forward 30% of these funds to the SCA International Service Organization. If an SCA meeting does not belong to an Intergroup it is suggested that their surplus funds be sent to ISO.”

In 2012, ISO affirmed the acceptability of direct individual SCA member contributions to ISO, and increased the limit for such contributions. ISO also affirmed and restated the existing limit for one-time bequests by SCA members to ISO in wills. The motion passed is as follows:
“Raise the annual allowance of direct individual contributions from SCA members to SCA-ISO to $5,000 per year and maintain the allowance of single bequests from SCA members at $5,000.”

When tackling 7th Tradition matters, SCA as a fellowship and SCA members, like other 12 Step Recovery Programs and their members, have the experience of Alcoholics Anonymous as the first 12 Step Program to examine, and rely on.

Bill W., co-founder of AA, has this to say about the 7th Tradition, as explored in the AA Pamphlet “Self-Support – Where Money & Spirituality Mix,” which contains extracts of his writings from various sources:
We Cannot Skimp
“Our spiritual way of life is safe for future generations if, as a Society, we resist the temptation to receive money from the outside world. But this leaves us with a responsibility – one that every member ought to understand. We cannot skimp when the treasurer of our group passes the hat. Our groups, our areas and AA as a whole will not function unless our services are sufficient and their bills are paid. When we meet and defeat the temptation to take large gifts, we are only being prudent. But when we are generous with the hat we give a token that we are grateful for our blessings and evidence that we are eager to share what we have found with all those who still suffer.”
(The Language of the Heart, page 221)

and:

A Collective Obligation
“Now, where do AA’s services – worldwide, area, local – fit into our scheme of things? Why should we provide these functions with money? The answer is simple enough. Every AA service is designed to make more and better Twelfth Step work possible, whether it be a group meeting place, a central or intergroup office… or the world service Headquarters….. Though not costly, these service agencies are absolutely essential to our continued expansion – to our survival as a Fellowship. Their costs are a collective obligation that rests squarely upon all of us. Our support of services actually amounts to a recognition on our part that AA must everywhere function in full strength – and that, under our Tradition of self-support, we are all going to foot the bill.”
(AA Grapevine, October 1967)
The full text of this pamphlet can be viewed here:
http://aa.org/pdf/products/f-3_selfsupport.pdf

These days, it is more likely that a basket or envelope will be passed around at meetings than a hat, but ISO has no hat. ISO is, however, able to receive electronic or mail contributions. There is news on this front as well.

This year also saw changes to billing details for PayPal and Credit Card payments in an effort to enhance member anonymity. As a result, when contributions are made to ISO via PayPal and Credit Card, only references to “ISO” show up in third party financial institution Credit Card statements. Members’ private PayPal email statements and receipts will, though, show fuller details. Similarly, checks can be made payable simply to “ISO” or “International Service Organization” when they are mailed in. Some details may be added to the back of the check during processing (including mention of SCA), but many cancelled checks are no longer returned to clients, and are destroyed after processing. If bank statements include electronic copies of checks, often only the front of the check is shown. Members with particular concerns might prefer to use PayPal or a Credit Card.

ISO is able to receive electronic contributions via the following link, which also details how to mail in contributions by check drawn on a US bank:
http://www.sca-recovery.org/donate.html

The SCA Statement of Purpose reminds us that: “Our primary purpose is to stay sexually sober and to help others to achieve sexual sobriety.” Tradition Five reminds us that: “Each group has but one primary purpose – to carry its message to the sexual compulsive who still suffers.”

In relying on ourselves, we have only ourselves to rely on, and others are relying on us! The 7th Tradition matters!

New Wednesday SCA Telephone Meeting

The
following is being posted to the SCAnner, ISO List, Inreach Committee List,
Outreach Committee, Fiduciary Committee, Online Intergroup Ops. List, and
members of the Sunday telephone meeting.

We are very
pleased to announce that a new weekly telephone meeting will be starting on
Wednesday, October 31, 2012 under the auspices of Online Intergroup. The
meeting will be held at 4:00 p.m. New York time every Wednesday. Services like
www.timeanddate.com can tell you the equivalent time in
your location. The new Wednesday meeting will largely mirror the existing
Sunday telephone meeting. The meeting will be conducted in English.

All SCA
members worldwide are welcome to attend, as are members from other “S”
fellowships, and anyone qualifying under SCA’s Third Tradition.

The meeting
will be hosted via the Calliflower Conference Call system that is currently
being used by the Sunday telephone meeting, ISO and several ISO Committees.
This allows most people to call in free via Skype to Skype bridge, free or at
low cost via Google Voice or Gmail Call Phone depending on where you live, and
at normal local tariffs via regular phone to local numbers provided by Calliflower
in many areas. In rare cases, long distance charges may apply.

If you wish
to attend a telephone meeting, or are already a participant in the Sunday
meeting and also want to attend the Wednesday meeting, please register in one
of the following ways:

Ø 
Send
an email with your first name and last initial, plus the email address to which
your Calliflower invitation and weekly reminders should be sent, to:
oimoderator@gmail.com.

Ø 
Sign
up via the SCA website at:
http://www.sca-recovery.org/telephoneaccess.htm

Please specify which meetings you wish to attend, e.g.
“Wednesdays” or “Sundays” or “Wednesdays and Sundays.”

General background information on
participating can be viewed in previous SCAnner postings about the Sunday
telephone meeting:

http://www.scanneronline.org/2011/07/new-sca-telephone-meeting.html

http://www.scanneronline.org/2012/07/telephone-meeting-anniversary.html

Online
Intergroup is excited to be offering this additional meeting option, and we
hope it will prove to be a success. Its viability will depend not only on
members attending, but also on members getting involved in telephone meeting
service, and chairing in particular. Both telephone meetings are looking for
volunteers, and training is offered.

An updated
flyer for the telephone meetings is also being distributed throughout the
fellowship. Please circulate it and pass this news on to groups and members
everywhere!

In service,

Kevin – SCA Toronto

& Online Intergroup 

12-Step Retreat in New York

The following information was provided by the organizers of the retreat, which is not affiliated with SCA, although some members do plan to attend. We provide this information in the spirit of recovery.

Practicing the 12 Step Prayers
We Sought Through Prayer & Meditation…


Cost
$210.00 
includes private room, 
materials, & all meals
 
Where
Little Portion Friary
48 Old Post Road,
Mt. Sinai, NY 11766
 

When
– Retreat begins –
Friday November 16th
at 6:30 PM
– to –
Sunday November 18th
at lunch


Little Portion Friary is located about 60 miles east of New York City on the north shore of Long Island.

 

By Train | LIRR

to Port Jefferson Station
 
 
We support your journey by offering our home as a place for prayer, reflection, retreats, meetings of all kinds, weddings, spiritual growth, engagement and rest. 
We hope that you’ll find 
Little Portion a place where you can be yourself. We’re committed to supporting you in finding your way to a 
joyous spirituality. 
 

 

Got Prayer?

 

Join us for a weekend of reflection that will recognize recovery turning points, build fellowship, and add to (or, refresh) your spiritual toolkit.

 

Please join us if you…

  • are in any of the 12-Step programs, from your first 90 days to many years, no matter where you are in step work;
  • have a prayer practice, or don’t; or, are “acting as if;”
  • are curious (or, afraid);
  • are spiritual, but not religious.

During the weekend, we will explore the four prayers that mark major “turning points” in 12 Step recovery: the Serenity Prayer and the Third, Seventh and Eleventh Step Prayers.

 

Throughout the weekend, we will spend time together in prayer and reflection, recognizing these turning points, sharing our experience, strength and hope, and discussion. 

 

Some of the types of prayer we will practice together during the retreat will include meditation, labyrinth walks, contemplative journaling, soulcollage artwork, and deep listening.

 

No matter what step you’re on, or how long you’ve been in program (and, whatever your relationship is to prayer), join us to deepen your experience with these essential “turning point” prayers of surrender, service and transformation.

 

Please click on the link below to RSVP or register…
Don’t hesitate to be in touch with any questions or thoughts before registering.

Led by Paul Kimmerling & Br. Mark D’Alessio, SSF

 

Paul Kimmerling is a spiritual director, corporate trainer and 12-step practitioner. He has designed and led a number of workshops on contemplative and active approaches to spiritual development and personal growth, in areas such as Centering Prayer, Forgiveness, Personal Transition, and Career as Vocation. In May 2013 he is taking ten people to Assisi, Italy for a spiritual retreat and is currently developing a mindfulness-based wellness program for the workplace.

 

Br. Mark D’Alessio, SSF, is a Franciscan friar, spiritual director, author, and past President and Executive Director of the Psychotherapy & Spirituality Institute. Br. Mark has a particular interest in the science and spirituality of applied imagination, a vocation that has spanned two decades and several continents. A Lifetime Colleague of the Creative Education Foundation and past faculty member of their global institute, he has helped, among others, government officials, community leaders, business people, educators, artists, and clergy, with leadership development, fostering innovation, and managing change. Recently he was blessed to serve both the Office of the Presiding Bishop and Forward Movement on cultivating cultures of creativity for the Episcopal Church. A graduate and former steering committee member of the Guild for Spiritual Guidance, Br. Mark is the co-author of the training text, The Imagination of Leadership.

 

 

SCA Toronto Step Study Group

“The spiritual life is not a theory. We have to live it.” Alcoholics Anonymous, Chapter Six, “Into Action” – Page 83.

 

SCA Toronto is putting on a Step Study Group so members who wish
to can work through the 12 Steps together in a group setting.

 

Details of the Step Study are as follows:

 

LOCATION: St.
Andrew’s United Church, 117 Bloor Street East, Toronto

DAY: Wednesdays

TIME: 7:30 p.m.
to 9:30 p.m.

START
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color:black”>Wednesday, October 24, 2012

 

The Step Study is expected to last up to a year, and, as well as the 12
Steps, will include a section on drafting Sexual Recovery Plans. Space is
limited, and priority will be given to SCA members.

This is a great opportunity for members who have not worked through the Steps
to do so, or for members who have had difficulty completing certain Steps to do
so in a structured setting, or for members who have completed the Steps to do a
refresher. We will use a variety of materials, but the Step Study will largely
be based on “Hope & Recovery” and “Hope & Recovery – the
Workbook.” Members attending should have copies of these books. A list of
other resources we will be using will be provided to participants at a later
date.

It is intended that this Step Study will take a thorough and comprehensive
approach to the 12 Steps and recovery from sexual compulsion. Please note this
is a special purpose group and not a regular meeting, and consistent attendance
over the full course of the Step Study is encouraged. The first three meetings will be open for people to see
if they wish to attend, then thereafter the group will be closed to only those
members who have attended up to that point.

More details will be provided to interested members. Please confirm by email to
scatoronto@hotmail.com if you will be attending.


One-Day Workshop in Los Angeles

GETTING STARTED,
OR RESTARTED

An S. C. A. Workshop

OCTOBER 13, 2012

9:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

PLUMMER PARK

7377 Santa Monica Blvd.
West Hollywood, CA 90046
(Park in North lot. Workshop is at South end of park)

Please Bring:
AA Big Book

AA Twelve&Twelve

SCA Little Blue Book

Large Spiral ring notebook

Pen / pencil

This workshop is for the Newcomer or any Member
struggling with their Sexual Compulsion, Sex Addiction
or Love Addiction.
Though COURT CARDS ARE
NOT SIGNED
at these workshops, we encourage attendance by anyone who is court-appointed to attend regular
SCA meetings, and who is interested in asking questions,
finding out more about SCA, and making your time with
us productive. In addition to an introduction to SCA, we will examine
The Tools That Help Us Get Better”
including the “Twelve Steps of SCA”. More experienced
members, and those starting over in SCA are welcome to add to the discussion too. We need not stay for the
entire alotted time, if our examination of the Program is
exhausted, but please make an e
ffort to begin at the same
time as the rest of us.

“SCA’s Twelve Steps are a group of principles, spiritual in
their nature, which, if practiced as a way of life can expel
the obsession to act out and enable the su
fferer to become
happily and usefully whole.”

“More sobriety brought about by the admission of sexual
compulsion and by attendance at a few meetings is very
good indeed, but it is bound to be a far cry from permanent sobriety and a contented, useful life.
That is just
where the remaining Steps of the SCA program come in.
Nothing short of continuous action upon these as a way
of life can bring about the much-desired result.”

(Adapted from AA’s 12 & 12)

Donation: $5.00

Suggested donation to pay for materials.
None turned away for lack of funds.


Net proceeds go to SCA / LA Intergroup.

Contact: workshops@scalosangeles.org

More Info: www.scalosangeles.org

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Public Service Video

David N., our Literature
Distribution Chair in New York, has volunteered to initiate the process of creating a video
which will be used to carry the message of recovery in SCA to the
still-suffering addict. 

The Outreach Committee is forming a committee to create the
format and content of this video. If you are interested in participating in
this process, please contact Joe S., Chair of the Outreach Committee, by email
at: outreach@sca-recovery.org